Duwa la lotus lokhala ndi mitu itatu lokhala ndi thunthu limodzi, maluwa achikondi omwe amafika mkati mwa mtima.

Chikondi ndi kukongola kobisika m'moyo, koma ndi moni m'mawa,nyale madzulo, ndi maluwa osangalatsa mtima. Pakati pa maluwa osiyanasiyana, maluwa a duwa akhala chizindikiro cha chikondi. Ndipo duwa limodzi lokhala ndi mitu itatu ili, lakhala likukopa chikondi ndi kukongola kwambiri.
Imaphwanya kukongola kwa maluwa achikhalidwe amodzi, ndi mawonekedwe ake apadera a mutu umodzi wokhala ndi tsinde limodzi, yokhala ndi matanthauzo okongola a miyoyo itatu yachimwemwe ndi ubale wa maluwa a duwa, pogwiritsa ntchito kapangidwe kake ndi mtundu wofewa kuti ibweretse chikondi mwachindunji pamtima, kukhala chisankho chabwino kwambiri chokongoletsera nyumba, mphatso za tchuthi ndi kukonza malo.
Kukongola kwachikondi kwa duwa limodzi lokhala ndi mitu itatu kumachokera ku mawonekedwe ake opangidwa mwaluso komanso chizindikiro chake. Tsinde limodzi likuyimira chiyero ndi kusamala, pomwe mitu itatuyi imabisa zinthu zanzeru. Wopangayo adaphunzira mosamala mawonekedwe achilengedwe a duwa ndipo adabwereza bwino momwe duwa limakhalira kuyambira pomwe limayamba kuphuka mpaka pomwe limatseguka bwino komanso litaphuka bwino. Palibe kuwala kochita kupanga, komabe kumatha kukhudza mtima nthawi yomweyo ndikubweretsa chikondi.
Kuti maluwa a maluwawa asungidwe kwa nthawi yayitali, zinthu zapamwamba kwambiri ndiye chitsimikizo chachikulu. Duwa limodzi lokhala ndi mapesi atatu silisintha zinthu zake, cholinga chake ndi kubwezeretsa kapangidwe kake koyera komanso kofewa. Maluwawo amapangidwa ndi nsalu yabwino kwambiri yosamalira chilengedwe, yokonzedwa pogwiritsa ntchito njira zapadera zopaka utoto ndi kupanga mawonekedwe, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti maluwawo akhale ofewa komanso osalala, osalala komanso osalala ngati maluwa enieni a duwa.
Ngakhale ikayikidwa padzuwa la dzuwa kwa nthawi yayitali, imatha kusunga mawonekedwe ake oyambirira owala, kuonetsetsa kuti chikondi sichikutha pakapita nthawi. Ndi kapangidwe kake kapadera komanso tanthauzo lake lokongola, imakwaniritsa kufunafuna chikondi ndi kukongola kwa anthu.